Well this few days i was kinda busy with school work and oso recently was sick for a few days. Ya, so now i'm somehow fully recovered and found some time to blog! haha. yea so here it goes.

Well recently many things happened. But i'm not gonna go into detail of wat happen and who were in it because i have to respect the their privacy. The main concern here today is abt misunderstanding and miscom. this happened to one of my fren. But as i said no names. =) Lets name the person "A". 'A" was in a situation whereby some ppl were ignoring "A" or rather they were trying to avoid "A". it was not only once but a few times. Wat if it was the other way around? Wat if u were the one dat is being ignored? And i have talked to "A" abt this. "A" said dat "A" did not noe wat "A" had done wrong to deserve dat type of attitude from the people. "A" had not much chance to ask or talk to the other party.

And my main point here is that if you are affected or rather angry by wat the other party said to you, u should tell the person. For example, take me as an example. I initially did not noe dat many people did not like my attitude which partly includes "accusing" or "assumption". People told me this issue. Dats when i realise it was affecting them and was making them not pleased abt it. Dats when i can change wat is not pleasant or nice towards ppl. And i'm trying to change it now. Same goes for "A". If the other party don tell "A" wats cause them to avoid "A", "A" will never know wat "A" had done wrong or done smth dat was unpleasant for them. I'm not saying "A" had done smth wrong. But its jus dat the matter will only get worse and worse. Because similarly in my situation, if no one had told me abt dat issue above, i would stil remain as my old self. Which displeases many. Same here. And the 'avoiding game' might oso affect the person's self esteem. which in the long run can never be gd for a person. And this is an example of a Miscom.

Another matter which i wanna talk abt is abt friendship. Even though our clique may be splitting, (*shrugs*) u guys will stil be my frens. But through ups and downs, i finally found a grp of true frens in the class which i can really rely and trust upon in good or bad times. Its not i don trust the rest, its jus more and less. This grp of ppl include, JingYan, Lucus,Bryan,Joel,Shaun and Junwen. i really love u guys. (in a straight way of cos! LOL.). The rest maybe i jus don noe u guys well enuff yet. *shrugs* no offence totally btw. =) But i was oso quite disappointed with some ppl. u guys should noe who. especially 6 of u. =) cos i did mention before i guess. Some people(s) did somethings to me which i did not like made me rather mad and angry. But nvm, its over. I forgave the person/people. But those 6 ppl above helped me alot by giving advice, teaching me lots of things, comforting, and most importantly let me noe dat i have them thre for me whenever i nid them. One of them even gt himself into trouble for helping me. And many many tks for your help and very sry dat u were made the bad guy for the incident.

Friendship is like building a house. It takes a long time to build up. But by it takes jus a very short while to destroy. And wat i am trying to say here is oso dat u all should really treasure friendship!! like how u would treasure your family. thre is a chinese idiom saying smth like, "At home u depend on family, while when you're outside u depend on frens." yea with dat i gonna end this post here. Maybe u guys could ponder over wat i said in this last para. Cheers!! =))
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hey ppl. haha i really apologise for not posting for Very Very long. yea ALMOST A YEAR! no i'm jus kidding. Its i think about more than half a yr or so. Many things have happened since the last time i blogged. Which is on my bday thing i suppose. So well actually i'm now studying in Temasek Polytechnic for those of u who don noe. In a course called Media And Communication Technology (MET) in engineering school (engine rocks! o.o). Well i'm a very gd class. This class is called Q907 and is honestly but no offence one of the best class i have been in so far. lol. Yea.. i like them because they are lively, enthusiastic, and many of them are very trustworthy. And yea they are very nice people to know. And the way we helped each other these few mths thru studies and personal problems, i really like dat. i could click really well wif a few of them now. Means i could share wif them my thoughts etc. In simple terms, i trust them very well. Its not dat i don trust the rest. Its jus less and more trust.. lol hope u all get it. They are Jing Yan, Joel, Shaun, Bryan and Lucus. (Hey i wont forget the rest of my dear frens alrite!! haha. I would rather have Brother no Flower than Flower no Brother ;) ) yea and recently my class we oso went to east coast park as a class outing. Organised by jojo =D. Well we went cycling from the early afternoon till late evening. It was actually a very good class outing planned by jo and maybe a few others. Like we bonded and interacted more. some ppl did things dat they thot they couldnt have done. Like me, i did not expected myself to be able to go all the way to changi village and back. lol. Discovered things dat i did nt noe before this. Like Lukie, JY (=D) and FY can cycle quite fast huh. (rock on guys!) haha. yea and shaun is a gd blader. (Shaun rock on!) not saying the rest of u are not!! but jus they were a little faster than us. And jovina is another nice person to talk to. =D (rock on jo!) But indefinitely, there were a few setbacks.. Like some ppl could not find the rest. And oso bikes tires punctured. And oso we went back a little late to return the bikes. Yea but thre was a particular thing dat i need to say right here and right now. I wan to apologise particularly to shermagne cos maybe i kinda pissed u off dat day. I noe sometimes i complain a little too much and unnecessary but i'll change. >.< jus nid some time. But i'm really sry for dat day. But u noe, at the end of the day. i enjoyed myself very much. I wanna thank Jovina and those ppl who helped her made dat outing a success. =D Looking forward to more of theseee! maybe night cycling? lol. And last but not least, Q907 keep up the spirit and CONTINUE TO ROCK ON! LOVE YA! Muck!

AND ALSO! Many ppl have been asking me how m i? Like do i have a gf alrdy?? etc etc. Is the gal on fb ur gf?? hahaha. well.. i may like a gal or may not.. yea and i'm gonna c how it goes. alrite.. so STOP ASKING!! lol maybe i might have the answer at the nxt post. haha. aite cya!

*~Gerald~* ;)
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