Tuesday, April 8, 2008
I found these info from a book. i tink its meaningful and interesting so here it goes...
1. Challenges in FriendshipThere is no such thing as an HONEST friendship that doesn't have as part of the disagreements, hurt feelings, jealousy and anger. The key is to rmb that the friendship is the most important thing and your pride, your need to be right, is second. Work it out with your heart and know that the friendship will only get stronger with each challenge.
2.Through It AllI know that this world
Isn't always the safest place
I wanted to write this down
Because we could die tomorrow
And you'd never know
Just how much u mean to me
You have always been there
Ready to offer an ear, a hand
Or a shoulder to cry on
The happy times were great
The shared secrets and giggling
The sleepovers and bike rides
The hours spent practicing basketball
And just hanging out
But you pulled me out of the bad time, too
No matter how angry i was
How stupid i acted
How depressed i felt
You and often only you
Stuck by me through everything
(And i do mean everything)
You always seem to know
When to give advice
And when to just listen
Sometimes you are my alter ego
My better half
And sometimes i am yours
I have envied you
And been angry at you
I have stolen your spotlight
And hidden in your shadow
We have bickered
And shared hugs
We have screamed and yelled
And on occasion, cried
But through it all
I have and forever will
Love you as my best friend
3. Suddenly, I Turned around and My Best Friend Was ThereThe sky was blue, the sun was bright, and i didn't need anyone, because i could take on the world.
I was ready for anything and everything
Except
What happened next.
There was something behind me.
Suddenly i turned around.
It was you.
You wanted to make sure i was okay.
You tried to stop me from taking crazy risks.
I didn't need help,
i didn't want a friend.
You were there anyway.
Later on, it was pouring rain.
I needed someone, and i was alone.
I couldn't handle anything
Before
What happened next.
There was something behind me.
Suddenly i turned around.
It was you.
You were ready with a much-needed hug.
You forgot that i ever abandoned you.
I needed help,
I wanted a friend,
You were there when i needed you.
Whenever the weather changed,
When i was strong and when i fell
I could always count on you.
Until
What happened next.
There was something behind me.
Suddenly i turned around.
It was you.
You were crying and seemed very alone.
You couldn't make it on your own.
I could give you help.
I could be your friend.
It was my turn to be there for you.
Friends are there to let you be yourself and to accept you for who you are now and whoever you may be tomorrow. It's important to rmb that people change and grow, and as friends we need to let that happen; we need to lend our support, not our criticism.
Blogged
@ 6:25 PM
~Always be waiting for you~